Discharge your Polarities and Neutralise Your Flashbacks...
... to Find Calm Tranquility in just 6 weeks...
... without trudging through and reliving the past or trying to figure your trauma out.
You’ve spent years trying to figure out what’s wrong and how to fix it. You’ve read books, watched inspiring videos, done ‘therapy’ and maybe even meditated everyday.
Now it’s time to end your internal tug of war, experience calm tranquility and be who you’ve always known you could be.
Everything might look fine on the outside, but...
Life’s not nice when you’re hyper vigilant, when you’re remembering past memories or being weighed down by emotions that you can’t make any sense of, feeling anxiety, battling murderous rage, hiding in case ‘they’ see the ‘real you’, punishing yourself by over eating, having a foggy tired mind because of the continuous internal battle of opposing sides of your polarities…
… and also the guilt, the shame, the bouts of sadness or downright depression, doubting your own sanity, 'whether you’re bipolar or not', giving up, struggling, feeling betrayed over small things, thinking it would be easier to just ‘end things’… “there’s a bus coming”…
… plagued with fatigue and low concentration, health issues, aches, chronic pains… even fibromyalgia. Maybe constipation, respiratory problems or gut issues.
Making a decision, then doubting yourself... over trusting bad people and mistrusting 'good' people, being too controlling in ways that cause you to lack control. You procrastinate, then wish you hadn’t…
… looking for love within hate, looking for hate within love…
… looking for safety within danger, and worrying if there’s danger within safety.
It’s no way to live, and you know it.
So you escape… maybe you sleep too much, maybe you comfort eat or drink too much or numb yourself with drugs… maybe it’s something else for you.
You fantasise about ending it all, but you don’t want to miss what life could be like if things were to become better.
If you’re like those that have already benefitted from the Liberation Program, what really matters is to find your true self and achieve calm tranquility and to feel cherished.
There are two types of survivor: 'Fuelled' or 'Weighed Down'
Fuelled:
If you’re the type of survivor who has used your trauma as fuel to propel you into success, to prove that you’re not broken, that there’s nothing wrong with you, that you're no less than others…
... wouldn’t it be nice to avoid burnout and actually enjoy success and let tranquility into your life.
Weighed Down:
If you’re the type of survivor who's trauma has stopped you from succeeding...
... what's life going to be like without the trauma weighing you down and keeping you stuck?
Either type of survivor will benefit from discharging their trauma, so long as you want a drama-free way to end the effects of your trauma... without trudging through the past or spending years in therapy, talking to stranger after stranger, trying to understand why life is so bad.
Is it really possible to discharge your polarities within 6 weeks?
You weren’t born confused about your emotions and your thoughts. Your life mission was never supposed to be self analysis and figuring yourself out. You were never just supposed to survive day to day. Disconnected from the world. Disconnected, even from your very self!
It’s a damn shame that you’re stuck doing that. And you know it.
You know you have so much to give. So much. You know that every minute wasted on this bullshit (excuse my French!), is a minute stolen from your true purpose.
And it can even make you feel like an imposter.
It is vitally important that you watch this video:
Where is the Polarity Matrix?
There are three parts to you:
- Your conscious mind which is the most limited
- Under that is you subconscious mind, which is much more powerful
- And under your subconscious is what I call your essence
A common misconception is that the trauma resides in either the conscious or unconscious minds. This is incorrect. It isn't in your essence either because your essence can't be harmed or polluted.
But if you imagine a sheet of tracing paper between your essence and your subconscious mind... that's where the polarity matrix resides.
That sheet distorts what comes up from your essence into your mind (subconscious then conscious).
Which is why doing stuff with the unconscious - like hypnosis or belief work - doesn't work for trauma... because the problem happens before that.
Doing stuff at the level of the conscious mind is even more 'too late'... because by then it's been distorted by the matrix and absorbed by the unconscious... making real change impossible.
Finally, those that discharge the polarity matrix always say something similar: "I found myself and the world changed".
What they mean, is that the sheet of tracing paper has been removed and they are back 'in' their essence.
Why the effects of therapy are short lived
Most psychological therapies work with your conscious mind - which has the least control over you and is the most limited. Examples of therapies that do that are counselling, CBT, psychotherapy... to name a few.
Yes, you might feel that you 'understand' your problem and you might have coping strategies to better deal with 'the problem' when it rears its ugly head...
... but 'the problem' still exists!
Then there are the therapies that focus on the subconscious or unconscious mind... like hypnotherapy, NLP and therapies that include belief work etc. Though the subconscious is far more powerful than the conscious mind, the problem is not there... only the symptoms. This is because the issues happen below the subconscious - just above your essence, as you can see in the picture above.
In both cases, whether you're working with the conscious or unconscious, you're only working with the symptoms... and symptoms change with time. Plus polarities are by definition two opposites... and therapy only works with the symptoms of one of those opposites... and so when it's time for the other opposite to kick in, it's like nothing ever changed.
And that can be extremely frustrating. Unfortunately, when this happens a few times it can lead you to think that you're unfixable! Which is just not true.
Many survivors give up because it's just not financially viable to keep paying £60-£300 a week on private therapy. That comes to £3,000-£15,000 a year! Many survivors will have done 7 years + of private therapy before working with me... having already spent a small fortune and almost quitting.
Don't get me wrong... there is benefit in therapy, it gives you understanding... coping, managing. But the trauma and it's effects still exist. It's not the route for liberation.
Here are some of the benefits experienced by those who've discharged their polarities.
Intimacy without flashbacks or triggers
- End intrusive flashbacks
- Don't feel lonely
- Don't feel isolated
- Tried so much before
Finding self:
- Live in the now
- Concentrate better
- Confidence
- Optimism
- Finding own voice
- Self love and respect
- Overcame fear of people
- Dress comfortably
- Stop hiding
- Feeling immense love
Dropped Addictions
- Chocolate
- Buying things
- Binge eating
- Workaholism
- Attention seeking
- Mobile phone
"Counsellor and Psychotherapist of 15 years liberates herself from her trauma...
... and refers 4 clients and a family member"
In this video, angel gives a thorough breakdown of her journey, her gains, her challenges and the reason why she referred 5 people onto the Liberation Program.
"Hypno-therapist liberates himself from her trauma..."
In this video, Roberto gives a summarised breakdown of his journey, his gains and his challenges.
Allow me to introduce...
The Liberation Program
How does it work?
The program requires a commitment of 6-7 hours a week, for 6 weeks.
If you were to compare that to therapy, that would equal 11 months worth of contact time.
It consists of 3 elements:
- The membership portal with 20-30 mins of audio a day
- The mid-week call every week for 1 hour 20 mins
- The group calls every weekend, for 2 hours
How was your journey?
What's so special about the polarity discharge audios in the portal?
The audios consist of the polarities that I have found common between 90% of survivors.
As you listen to the audios, your polarities are discharged... and you also get a sense of achievement and ability.
Clear the common polarities by yourself, so that you allow me to clear the ones that are unique to you.
What's so special about the mid-week calls with Abdel Mussa?
Because you're clearing the common polarities by yourself... in our mi-week call we can do together what only you and I can do.
We can work on the polarities that are unique to you and discharge them once and for all.
What's so special about the weekend group calls?
The group calls are NOT peer-to-peer support calls with the blind leading the blind and triggering the crap out of each other!
I have no idea why anyone would set such a thing up!
Instead, they are affirmative and constructive. Here's how they're usually structured:
- everyone mentions their gains from the week... it's very inspirational!
- everyone tells me their challenges and what they want to work on
- I get to work discharging your polarities
How the group calls remove 2 types of blind spots:
Negative blind spots
This is simply the bad stuff that you can't see. And as others in the group talk about their challenges, it shines a light on what you didn't see before.
Positive blind spots
"You don't know what you don't know": there are things you haven' even considered for yourself because of the paradigm you've been stuck in. Once others ask for them, they become a possibility for you too.
The group calls are amazing for helping you to see BOTH types of blind spots and move on past them.
Weekly Breakdown
Each week consists of 6 hours of contact time, which if you were to compare with therapy... would equal 11 months worth.
Week 1
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Keeping the past in the past
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Neutralise flashbacks
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Release murderous rage
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1hr one-one call
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2hr group call
Week 2
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The Trust Compass
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Trusting self
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Growing up internally
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1hr one-one call
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2hr group call
Week 3
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Ending suffering
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Self is not other
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BONUS
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1hr one-one call
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2hr group call
Week 4
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Shame
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Different than others
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BONUS
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1hr one-one call
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2hr group call
Week 5
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Sex and intimacy
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Freedom of opinion
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BONUS
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1hr one-one call
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2hr group call
Week 6
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Flirtation
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Self sovereignty
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BONUS
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1hr one-one call
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2hr group call
The Polarity Discharge Portal
The midweek call booking section
The background story
Early on as I started working with clients I decided only to work with the hardest of cases, the ones that had tried everywhere else with no luck... and I was lucky enough to be featured in the local newspapers. I look much younger than I am now… and that’s because I was!
I noticed a pattern between all the ‘impossible’ cases - they all suffered from child abuse trauma. And so that became my focus… helping adult survivors of child abuse overcome their trauma and rekindle intimacy.
I get asked why what I do works and my response is always that it’s tailored. Which isn't possible without the breadth of disciplines and teachers that I have learned from.
Having more than one tool in my bag allows me not only to use the necessary tools for each job but to also understand the underlying tenants behind each tool and discipline so that I can create my own tools. And I have and still do.
I’m limited by time and so I can only work with 12-15 people a month before I risk burnout. I wish I could do more, but facilitating for people to overcome the effects of child abuse trauma in a short space of time requires a lot of focus and commitment to them.
I’d rather help 10 people overcome their issues in 6 weeks than help 200 people a month slowly to overcome their issues in 5 years.
Consultation Call
The Liberation Program is results orientated. So we must be sure that you will benefit from it before accepting your enrolment. We do so by speaking to you.
I don't want to turn people away... instead, I want to help as many people as possible... but I am also honest with myself and will not accept anyone if I or a member of my trained enrolment coaches aren't sure that this program will help them (it's our Bouncer Guarantee).
Objectives of the call:
- To find out if the Liberation Program is for you
- To discuss logistics needed
- To finalise payment options upon agreement by both parties
FAQ about The Liberation Program
How much does The Liberation Program cost?
First WE need to assess if we can help you or not. Maybe we can't. But if we can, then how much the Liberation Program costs will depend on how many hours a week you'll need during the 6 weeks, which we can only assess after a consultation call with you (the hours quoted on this page are by way of example only).
If after we assess your needs, the quote is beyond your budget... then we can discuss other options. But only if we feel that we can help you.
If we feel that we can not help you, then we will point you in the right direction.
Why is there a charge for the consultation?
The consultation call is very important and requires that:
A- you fill out a questionnaire that helps us to understand your situation better
B- Abdel and the team look at this questionnaire to give an initial assessment
C- A member of the team calls you to discuss your needs further and to complete the assessment
We do this for the following reasons:
Firstly, though we do not offer any guarantees apart from "The Bouncer Guarantee" - because that enables the incapacitating polarity of having one leg in and one leg out - we also don't want to work with people that we know we can't help. This is because we can only work with a limited number of people a month, and leaving someone out of the program because their space was taken by someone else who we can't help isn't a good idea.
Secondly, one of the biggest consequences of trauma is isolation. And so, the program is designed to overcome that with group structures... which means that we do not want aggressive or offensive participants.
Thirdly, and extremely importantly, it's only fair that you respect what we do. We will not work with entitled individuals who think we should pay for the difficulties inflicted upon them by others. We do what we do to help you, and we do it uniquely and effectively, please respect that.
What's this Bouncer Guarantee?
There are 2 MASSIVE dangers that come with money back guarantees:
1- Money back guarantees encourage lack of commitment, they’re a cop out. Even when you have to show that you did the work... especially when it comes to programs that deal with psychological issues because you need to be fully invested.
Otherwise, you can 'do the work' on the 'outside'... without ever having done anything on the 'inside'. It needs a full commitment.
However, people like them because they’re not quite sure whether they can trust the person they are about to pay money to.
Except that they trust the person to give them back the money and not run away!
It’s a weird dynamic if you think about it.
In essence, it is the prioritisation of money over results, due to a lack of trust.
And respectfully, I don’t want to work with anyone who:
A- values money above results - especially when the effects of trauma are so dire.
B- doesn’t trust me.
Having said that, I do offer one type of guarantee: I call it the “Bouncer Guarantee”.
In essence, you will not enter the club unless I or my highly trained team are sure that the Liberation Program can help you. We do that by speaking to survivors 1-1, to make sure that you’ll get the results that we promise.
2- If someone is willing to spend time and effort with you for free...
... does that prove that they can help you…
...or does it prove that they’re not sure and that they’ve got nothing to lose by wasting your time… they might as well try because if it works, then they get to keep your money?
Are you really you’re willing to risk trusting someone that incompetent with your mind and future?
… because if someone is experienced and absolutely sure of their abilities… why would they offer a money back or satisfaction guarantee?
Is this too good to be true?
Be honest with yourself... is it REALLY even possible for someone to understand you this well WITHOUT being able to help you?
There's due diligence, and then there's just blind distrust... and if I have to push people into the program, I’m going to have to push them through it. Which would be extremely stressful for me and definitely not why I've invested 19+ years and tens of thousands of pounds honing my skills to create this program.
I’m not obliged to help people that can’t trust me even when every cell in their body is begging them to. That’s not my battle. I’m also wise enough to know that it’s a fight I can’t win.
… because if I chase you, you’ll just run away faster and harder.
Also, it's not fair to turn people away who are ready to change their lives around for people that want to play cat and mouse with me.
I know that maybe you can't trust yourself even though the cells within your body are telling you this is the thing that will help you, but the only way to overcome that self doubt is by wanting to change so much that you shut your internal doubter and you make the necessary step...
... if not, you will continue with the same patterns that are destroying your life!
What if we don't cover all the polarities ?
There's more than enough time and the elements of the program are designed to bring up all the polarities that need to be discharged. Also, as we remove polarities, other polarities pop their heads up.
When can I start?
The program is not run in batches because everyone is so different anyway. Instead, if there's space, you join there and then.
It's advantageous to join and be in the same group call as someone in more advanced weeks, because it accelerates your liberation.
What if I don't feel comfortable on a group call?
It's not a video webinar, it's a group AUDIO call. Also, the fact that you feel uncomfortable is only because of your polarities and the way they limit you.
It's up to you to choose whether you want freedom or fear?
If you choose freedom... yes, you might be uncomfortable in the first call, but things will clear up very quickly and you'll look forward to the 2nd group call.
The group calls are the thing that graduates miss the most afterwards.
Why aren't there more men on the videos?
It's not that the program doesn't work with men... it's that men aren't as open about their issues, or their gains.
Men aren't naturally as nurturing either - so inspiring others in this fashion isn't really their forte.